Lyrics: Don’t you know that it’s worth every treasure on earth/ To be young at heart.
You arrive to visit a friend in a nearby retirement home. You have been giving serious thought to moving there yourself but this day something seems amiss. There’s a disturbance in the field, and aside from whispers in the shadows, it’s too quiet. It’s obvious from first greeting that your friend is worried and she doesn’t waste any time getting to the reason. The home, her home, is changing hands. Again! The last time was only six months ago and that brought changes in staff, a loss of some amenities, and a proposed increase in monthly fees. The latter necessitated the move of some occupants including two of her good friends. And now, more changes to come. Your friend is concerned about her own finances and where she will live if she has to move out. This is definitely not the stable environment you were looking for, but it’s also a wake-up call.
In a one year period, a nearby retirement home changed from Merrill Gardens to Emeritus to Brookdale. All are/were for-profit Assisted Living companies in perhaps the fastest growing industry today. Emeritus, in fact, was the nation’s largest Assisted Living Company, headquartered here in Seattle, home to 40,000 seniors nationwide, and pulling in 1.6 billion in one year. It was found to be under staffed, failing to hire or train staff for meeting the needs of residents with complex medical problems, and failing to move these seniors to facilities where they would get the appropriate needed care, amounting to Elder Abuse in the very setting where they should have been protected and cared for. Whereas there is government regulation of nursing homes, there is none for Assisted Living at this time; States set their own standards.
I found myself getting emotional watching a PBS documentary on Emeritus: a woman with dementia suffering from neglect of painful pressure ulcers (bed sores) all over her body, a woman who escaped out a second floor window to her death and no one came out to be with her as she died because they might get sued; a senior who wandered outside in winter and froze to death, an Alzheimer patient who got into an unlocked cupboard and drank cleaning fluid and died. Inadequate and poorly paid staffing assured that the CEO and shareholders got their profits.
From what I’m learning as I investigate Retirement Home possibilities and options, I’m inclined to favor the not-for-profit homes. Retirement homes and assisted living is a rapidly growing multi-billion dollar business and my assessment of corporate structures are that they play to the profits at the expense of people a.k.a. you and me.
There’s so much more to learn and it’s not all bad, but you need to do your homework. To begin, I encourage you to Google the PBS Frontline Documentary on Emeritus.
Lyrics: And if you should survive to 105,/ Look at all you’ll derive out of being alive!/ And here is the best part, you have a head start/ If you are among the very young at heart. (Lyricists: Johnny Mercer and Robert E. Dolan)