RETIREMENT HOME (Part 2) Our neighborhood is not exactly “cozy.” We’re of different ages, incomes, retired, employed, with children, grown children, no children married, divorced, gay, straight, with pets or without (one couple has three egg-laying chickens), politically progressive or conservative. One widower has lived here since the 1940’s; we’ve lived here 24 years. Most have moved in since. Everyone is busy. In short, we’re a cross section of America. I don’t know everyone in our immediate neighborhood but, as Block Watch Captain, I’ve gotten to know most and most know me. The Rose Man is known, of course, by his roses.
We’ve bonded together over Disaster Preparedness and Crime Prevention. Twice a year we socialize as a group with a Labor Day Alley Party and a Cinco de Mayo party in May. We see more of one another in the summer when we’re outside or in passing, waving to each other from the car. Not everyone in the neighborhood participates — keeping to themselves.
I’ve shared the dilemma of moving into a retirement home with friends and family and expressed my belief, based on my experience working in a retirement home, that in a community disaster I could trust my neighbors to assist us before trusting that employees of a retirement home who are paid little above minimum wage to leave their families and risk their lives to see to my welfare.
One of the neighbors I shared with discussed the issue with other neighbors and they presented us with another option based on the Village to Village movement. Saying that they don’t want us to move, our neighbors have volunteered to take care of the yard and other needs requiring assistance.
My heart overflows with love and gratitude.